For example, a cisgender straight man may not be attracted to the particular cisgender straight woman he's having sex with.

Regardless of sexual orientation, many people may find themselves aroused and able to 'perform,' even if they aren't attracted to the person they're having sex with. When it comes to sexual arousal, the brain is one of the key organs at play. They may be aroused by physical sensations of touching, fantasizing about having sex with someone else during the act, or it may occur for no particular reason at all, among other reasons. People can get erections for many reasons. Sexually speaking, an erection or becoming aroused isn’t a measure of a person's sexual orientation. Much of what is known comes from surveys or anecdotal evidence, which may not be as scientific as a research study, but still can offer great perspective on the topic. However, 'performance' when it comes to sex, which may be interpreted as arousal and possibly ejaculation, aren't determined exclusively by attraction. Unfortunately, while you've asked a great question, research in this area tends to be outdated, and lacking in some areas, like in the difference between feelings of arousal compared with sexual identity. It's also possible that someone who identifies as gay may want to have sex with someone of another gender. Indeed, there are gay men who feel pressured to mask their sexuality because of cultural, familial, religious, or personal beliefs that being gay is wrong. Your goal is to remind your body that you are a sexual being, get your focus out of your head and into your body, and amp up some self-generated sexual energy.You ask a really complicated question! To answer your question plainly with the information that you’ve shared, it’s likely that some gay men do have sexual relationships with women to hide their true orientation, due to fear of coming out. Before you meet up with your partner, watch some porn or read some erotica, masturbate but don’t orgasm, dance in a way that makes you feel sensual and alive, take a bath, or watch your favorite romantic movie. Instead, you need to consciously make that happen. As a result, sexual touch felt great! Now though, just thinking about your partner probably isn’t enough to get your body revved up. So, before foreplay ever began, you were already excited. Think of it this way: When you were first together, just thinking about your partner may have been enough to turn you on. It’s time for what I call “Foreplay for your foreplay.” Rather than expect that foreplay should be enough to excite you, your goal now is to excite yourself first, so that foreplay will feel good. The solution is to take matters into your own hands, meaning, you have to take responsibility for your own excitement.

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